So my short fling with Baldy ended. I’ve learned a few valuable lessons that I would like to share:

• Once a cheater, always a cheater. If for some reason you think he won’t cheat on you, he will. The grass will always be greener on the other side.
• You are who you are, not who he makes you. There’s nothing like constructive criticism, but if your whole life needs to be modified to meet his needs…. walk.
• Premature affirmation. If he says I love you before you can say I like you, forever may not be on your horizon.
• If he’s telling you about a ‘new friend’ and is guilty…. she’s more to him than a friend.

So i’ve learned some things… and, sure, I’m upset. Not because he was Mr. Everything. To be honest, he wasn’t really anything special…… his biggest selling point was his attraction to me and that didn’t take long to see through when he settled for the girl who was close and could meet his physical needs. But he was still something and for me, somethings don’t come around very often. Like once every 18 months or so. At least I know now to expect another one until the Summer of 2008. Maybe the future new boy and I can enjoy the Beijing Olympics together. That only last like 2-3 weeks…. that’s not too long to expect someone to stick around…. is it?